You may be confused right now wondering what kind of lifestyle you are meant to lead.
You may be asking yourself, "Am I a heterosexual or a homosexual?"
You don't even understand your own feelings, emotions and identity.
You are desperately looking for information about all this as the pressure is on you from people around you.
You can't afford to make a mistake with your precious life.
You need to know for yourself clearly so that you may walk the right path with confidence, peace and fulfillment.
It's good to start from the basics.
When you purchase something, you would study the manufacturer's handbook before starting to use it.
If you don't read the manual, it is very likely that your purchase would be spoilt or broken before long.
It is so with our lives. How much more important it is therefore for you to learn about yourself from the manufacturer.
First of all you must know that it is GOD Who made you. He made you an unique individual and He loves you very much. He wants to reflect His light through you and multiply you through reproduction. He made you a male or a female.
As with physical growth and changes, you also go through emotional changes.
As a young child, you are attached to and become dependent on your parents and other adults. You admire them and respect them.
As a teenager, you gradually let go of your mother's apron strings and make friends with children of your own age and sex and especially with those who display similar interests as yours.
As you grow into a young adult, and mature sexually, you naturally get attracted to the opposite sex. If you are a male you need a female and if you are a female you need a male to have a physically intimate, fulfilling relationship. This results in reproduction, proving that the internal organs of the male and female are complementary towards fruitfulness. The female has what the male does not have, not only physically but also emotionally. The male has what the female does not have physically and emotionally. Therefore a male and a female complete each other and become a wholesome unit. Such a relationship is a beautiful life of love, if it is established with that one partner who was chosen and meant just for you. This is your Manufacturer's good plan for you!
Relationships can go wrong from the time you are born into this evil and wicked world. Wrong relationships spoil right relationships. They hinder your progress in the right path.
Abuse by the father or insecurity during childhood can keep the adult clinging to the invisible apron strings of the mother or a mother-figure.
A harsh and abusive mother can instill in her child, hatred for females all through his or her life.
It can be so with a dominant and overly strict father or father-figure.
If you don't face and deal with these problems, wrong emotions and fear will hold you back from progressing in the best path planned for you. Females who have an aversion to males would find an easy way of diverting even their sexual drive to females. They fool themselves and accept and live a life of 'Make Believe' fulfillment.
A boy who has had unpleasant experiences with a female or females would rather continue with his teenage relationship with boys. His memories and emotions can keep him from getting attracted to females. Yet his sexual needs have to be met. The easiest path is the deviant path which falls short of the good and right path. He teaches himself and programs his mindset to that of a gay relationship.
If you are in any such situation, decide to get yourself sorted out. Don't let anyone or any experience of the past keep you from walking the right path that is the good path. Study GOD'S word, the Bible and program your mind according to this your Manufacturer's handbook that He has written for you with such great love. His desire for you is a happy life of fulfillment on earth and in heaven. Even if you have deviated in the wrong way, JESUS has graciously paid the price for you to return to the right path now. Remember that your direction in this life determines your eternal destiny, heaven or hell.
Unfortunately there are deviant pathways set by the laws of many countries that make it easy for many confused people to turn into. Many teachers, religious leaders, doctors, psychiatrists, psychologists, those in authority and many other tools of the devil will stand before the judgement seat of The Manufacturer one day to answer for the many lives they misdirected and destroyed.
Each of us has to stand one day before our Creator to answer for our own lives. Are you fulfilling His plan and purposes for your life?
Genesis 1:27-28 (NKJV)
27 So God created man in His own image; in the image of God He created him; male and female He created them.
28 Then God blessed them, and God said to them, "Be fruitful and multiply; fill the earth and subdue it; have dominion over the fish of the sea, over the birds of the air, and over every living thing that moves on the earth."
Genesis 19:1, 12, 27-28 (NKJV)
1 Now the two angels came to Sodom in the evening, and Lot was sitting in the gate of Sodom. When Lot saw them, he rose to meet them, and he bowed himself with his face toward the ground.
12 Then the men said to Lot, "Have you anyone else here? Son-in-law, your sons, your daughters, and whomever you have in the city--take them out of this place!
27 And Abraham went early in the morning to the place where he had stood before the LORD.
28 Then he looked toward Sodom and Gomorrah, and toward all the land of the plain; and he saw, and behold, the smoke of the land which went up like the smoke of a furnace.
(Homosexuality was rampant in Sodom & Gomorrah)
Jude 1:7 (NKJV)
7 as Sodom and Gomorrah, and the cities around them in a similar manner to these, having given themselves over to sexual immorality and gone after strange flesh, are set forth as an example, suffering the vengeance of eternal fire.
Jeremiah 29:11-14 (NKJV)
11 For I know the thoughts that I think toward you, says the LORD, thoughts of peace and not of evil, to give you a future and a hope.
12 Then you will call upon Me and go and pray to Me, and I will listen to you.
13 And you will seek Me and find Me, when you search for Me with all your heart.
14 I will be found by you, says the LORD, and I will bring you back from your captivity; I will gather you from all the nations and from all the places where I have driven you, says the LORD, and I will bring you to the place from which I cause you to be carried away captive.
1 John 5:18-20 (NKJV)
18 We know that whoever is born of God does not sin; but he who has been born of God keeps himself, and the wicked one does not touch him.
19 We know that we are of God, and the whole world lies under the sway of the wicked one.
20 And we know that the Son of God has come and has given us an understanding, that we may know Him who is true; and we are in Him who is true, in His Son Jesus Christ. This is the true God and eternal life.
Revelation 21:5-8 (NKJV)
5 Then He who sat on the throne said, "Behold, I make all things new." And He said to me, "Write, for these words are true and faithful."
6 And He said to me, "It is done! I am the Alpha and the Omega, the Beginning and the End. I will give of the fountain of the water of life freely to him who thirsts.
7 He who overcomes shall inherit all things, and I will be his God and he shall be My son.
8 But the cowardly, unbelieving, abominable, murderers, sexually immoral, sorcerers, idolaters, and all liars shall have their part in the lake which burns with fire and brimstone, which is the second death."
Tuesday, December 27, 2011
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