Flattery or Encouragement

Flattery or Encouragement

But as we have been approved by God to be entrusted with the gospel, even so we speak,

not as pleasing men, but God who tests our hearts.

For neither at any time did we use flattering words, as you know,

nor a cloak for covetousness--God is witness.

Nor did we seek glory from men, either from you or from others,

when we might have made demands as apostles of Christ.

But we were gentle among you, just as a nursing mother cherishes her own children.

So, affectionately longing for you, we were well pleased to impart to you

not only the gospel of God, but also our own lives,

because you had become dear to us.

1 Thessalonians 2:4-8

Words spoken can either build one up or drag him down.

Even in building one up, flattery pumps up the flesh and carnality

While encouragement builds one up mentally, emotionally and spiritually.

Even when we speak the truth let us speak it with love.

That brings an impartation.

Do our words edify people?

He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets; 

Therefore do not associate with one who flatters with his lips. 

Proverbs 20:19 

Flattery boosts up carnality but encouragement builds up spirituality.

A lying tongue hates those who are crushed by it, 

And a flattering mouth works ruin.

Proverbs 26:28 

A man who flatters his neighbor Spreads a net for his feet.

Proverbs 29:5